As said, the S model is likely to have a low series BCM (Body Control Module) that will not support many of the options on an SE and SEL, including the lighting package. That being said, some "S" cars did have the higher BCM installed, and you'd have to get the p/n from the BCM to confirm. There's threads at the vortex and GOLFMK7 with a how-to, which requires removing a few trim items at the driver's feet and taking a picture of the BCM p/n.
(Oh, you may also be able to get the BCM number through the infotainment screen, but this may be missing a suffix to confirm low-mid-hi).
The low BCM can be swapped out for higher versions providing an array of future options, but I have only found a few threads on doing it, so if you find more, let us know. I'd like to change BCMs to support heated seats.
(Her) Mk7 GSW S has a BCM which does not support the lighting package, and I didn't really want to do some of the additional work (it's not P&P) so I swapped out the OE halogen headlights and installed Ed's (BECA) Mk7 HIDs, which are very good. Plus it's less work and (at this point) less pricey. I can post pics if you aren't familiar.
The first thread I've linked is the best one I've found for your question. Please post more as you find them...
DIY: OEM Lighting Package (AFS Xenon) Retrofit This is a do it yourself of a retrofit of Halogen to OEM Xenon with Adaptive Front-lighting System (AFS). Warning: This is my experience and is for informational purposes. You are fully responsible for your own project, neither...
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I need to upgrade BCM from MID to HIGH to retrofit heated seats and I need to upgrade Gateway from MID to HIGH to have the extended CAN bus for direct TPMS. I already have the modules and I know that I need the dealer to remove component protection once I swap them. I know that...
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