Ok, the guy (a Ford mechanic) and his friend (a Ford diesel mecanic) had the car towed to another mechanic friend of theirs (a VW TDI mechanic at Donald's VW) to get the car running. The VW mecanic told the first listed friend exactly went wrong, and I quote "you f'd up."
Both the first 2 mechanics assured me that they had the tools to do the work. Even though I was just a little worried because the majority of the 2.0 fleet has yet to reach 100k miles, I had them do the work anyway. Guess what everyone, the universal tool they had doesn't work. Towed off to Donaldson's VW.
The first mechanic ordered the proper tool kit and had it shipped over night.
Today got a call from my friend, the first mechanic, and said the locking tool worked great and the car is running. The cam was off by one tooth.
So, I brought the TB kit from ID Parts (must say the first 2 mechanics were impressed with what came with the kit), $500 to install the TB.
The TDI mechanic at Donaldson's VW in Sayville NY now has the locking kit, he brought the kit from my friend.
Can't say I'm upset with the events of this. Took a chance. Also have to remember that New York has been without the ability to have a diesel car for so long, VW diesel mechanics are hard to come by and just about nonexistent on Long Island.
Car is working though. Will be without it until they put it back together tomorrow.