But 2K isn't idle? Idle is 8-900RPM. Why are you concerned you're hitting 30PSI at 2K, do you fell this is too low a value?
2K is max torque, and you don't need to be 100% WOT to hit max torque once tuned.
So you're running adaptation and VCDS is stating it passed adaptation? It sounds like a new flash made the Limp mode/cell issue go away. You can now do a full pull and you don't get any codes? What's the issues?
If you're concerned about tip in and how the ECU is mapped for aggressively building boost, that's up to you and the tuner.
I'm not seeing what your issue is other than you think running adaptation should build boost. The engine will hardly build boost unless there's load, and adaptation just sets a look up table used by the ECU map. Again you should be able to run adaptation with the engine off. it then uses that look up table for reference towards throttle input, RPM torque/boost demand.
One last ditch effort is to physically move the VNT actuator and view the read out of the voltage, see if you can physically move the actuator further than what adaptation runs it through. Run adaptation again and view the VNT to see that it moves the exact same limits you had just verified.
If you're not getting any codes, and VCDS stats adaptation passes, I honestly think the only error is between the steering wheel and the drivers seat.