To reduce thread-bloat, I usually try and bring my replies into one posting when there are many things to comment on BUT THIS TIME, I think I should jump right into this youngest one and leave other remarks for another posting:
[...] Looks like the problem is pure[ly] electrical.
That would be great, and I'm leaning in that direction myself for a collection of reasons, not least of which was the suddenness of the change - nothing gradual about it. And, I have found good reasons to reject suggestions about the muffler / cat, etc, and I now think the actual source of the baby rattle sounds is likely the top of the struts in the front suspension - quiet when loaded, noisy when unloaded. (This is a very distinct sound from the sound that's in my only partially informed view is the pistons rattling around in their bores.)
If the N108 is open then the pump has to be pulled anyway to access it. ECU now has no control of timing so that's why it went into limp mode. Its stuck on base timing.
This makes good sense to me and while
I PULLED LIKE HELL on the damned connector and don't want to break it,
NOBODY has told me HOW to get the connector apart and re-seated, and I've practically BEGGED people. Some say, try this, I say it won't come apart, so how? No answers!
[...] its very important to stay on track troubleshooting and not trying to find solution to fit the problem.
While "out of my element" here, on this topic, as a master troubleshooter in virtually every discipline I have any skill in whatsoever, I COMPLETELY and "violently" agree; my goal is to listen, figure what makes sense and fits into what I know, AND, when acting without full information or in ambiguity, try and focus on the easy, inexpensive, and not likely harmful as first areas of focus.
I am worried that the OP changed the vacuum hoses and created yet another problem if they are not hooked up correctly. Its important not to shotgun problems like this.
I've been working with this cloth braided hose since roughly 1977 when I got my first VW. And, while not a water-cooled fan so far, these hoses are ubiquitous in the earlier VW and Porsche vehicles, of which it is no exaggeration to say I'm a master. I assure you, ALL the hoses I replaced were failed or failing, and I left all the ones that seemed to be intact alone; I am 100% sure there were failed "vacuum" hoses that were other issues. Further, I did them one at a time, with only one exception because they just fell apart on me. However, that would be easily fixed.
Here's a useful thread on solving the N108 code.
Thanks for the link - AND your comments.