Packethauler, thank you, we're nearly done with the homestudy, then it takes up to 6 months to prepare the dossier for the other country and file with Immigration. Then up to 18 months to get matched, or a couple of weeks (they're very inconsistent on wait times). Once matched we have 6 weeks to get in country, where I have to be there for 60 days and my wife will have to stay for up to 8 months. All said it could be 2 or more years ( or as little as 6 months) until we travel, then my wife will be out of work for atleast a year (she's a teacher). Thankfully we have all the (known) fees already saved for, we just need to raise enough to support 2 houses for a year with 1 less income and a 60 day complete lack of income. It isn't an easy road, but I must bring my children home. The wait is agonizing, knowing that my children, whoever they are, are sitting in an orphanage, not getting the full love they deserve.
JFettig, thank you for the offer, I did order a pan already and I'm going to try to get my current pan welded at work (I'm an engineer and we have full manufacturing on site, so we have a good TIG welder). Then I'll have a backup for if it happens again before "Summer" assuming summer happens this year. Then I'll bend up a steel plate for a skid, but since I'm working outside I want to wait until it's not snowy or melty to get a template for the skidplate.