I agree it definitely has to do with gas engine dynamics, but it felt particularly exacerbated in the GTI. I think that's for at least a couple of reasons including: a ton of turbo lag low in the rev range, high expectations (mine) on off the line dynamics, it's set up to be a "hot hatch" so just tooling around on the daily commute isn't much fun, it weighs a ton...
When I finally felt like I was having fun in the GTI, I looked down at the speedometer and I was doing 50 in a 30 mph zone...

In addition, it felt very contrived. Which was topped off by the electronically pumped in engine noise!

It's very refined... beautiful car... but not fun at "around town" speeds.
I actually drove a Mazda MX-5 the same day. Completely the opposite experience. I expected not to like it much. But it had a naturally aspirated, extremely quick revving engine with a good long, flat torque curve that kicks in early and sticks around though the 6500 rpm mark. It is
extremely engaging at any speed.
When both my wife and I felt I was going too fast, I looked down at the speedometer and I was going under 35 in a 35 mph zone!


Huge fun... limited ticket potential... trackable out of the shop and huge modification potential (if that's what you're into)... BUT... no backseat and absolutely
minimal storage.