TDIx2,
You made a good decision. The quote above is the best advice I've heard on this board in quite some time, and I've been here since 2003.
Worry less. I am saddened by the increasingly negative slant - without data - on the new CR TDI's. I have a 2011 Jetta TDI, which I bought new. I also had a 2009 Jetta TDI, which I regretfully traded in on a gasser Touareg. There was an $800 bill for the 40k mile service on the Touareg to change plugs, coils, etc. Don't let folks scare you with all the high $ maintenance talk. My 1st TDI was '03 Jetta, bought new and traded on the '09, above. I put 107,000 flawless miles on that first one, had one check engine light at 104,000 for a bad glow plug.
Here's the deal - there's nothing wrong with the new ones. There are a small number of HPFP failures. Last I checked it was between 1 in 250 cars to 1 in 750 cars. Bosch is on rev 4 or 5 of the HPFP pump. The problem is the only good, data point out there (because everyone else has conflicting stories) is the Bosch statement that you need to run diesel with european lubricity specs.
For peace of mind - run quality diesel from a major station - Chevron, Shell, BP, Conoco/Phillips, etc., and run a good additive to bump the lubricity. Best choices out there now are Stanadyne's Lubricity formula or Opti-Lube XPD. Power Service doesn't get it (with regards to lubricity).
Yes, my '03 got 50+ mpg. My '11 gets about 46 mpg, but, both the '09 and '11 are better overall cars than my '03. I bought my new '11 last May, had the 10k service done in October - I do a lot of driving across Montana in the summer fishing season and tow an ATV with the car. I like mine - you'll like yours, too. I intend to put 200k+ on this one, then go start a new TDI forum with two sections - Opinion Only and Data Backed Posts (laugh).