The BV43 is more than enough air.
It would be good to share the extent of what you already have when asking questions about upgraded turbo etc. Had you mentioned nozzles / tune before that would have alleviated the need to bring it up.
As an aside, the stage 2 won't work with the BV43 (or any VNT) turbo setup as it is. You'll have to go back to the vendor for changes and I'm pretty sure if you share your existing info with them they'll say stage 2 is insufficient.
One other thing to think about here too is the change to the exhaust downpipe attachment for the new turbo, the flange for the triple K won't work with BV43 but based on what others are saying the Mk4 / B5.5 tdi flange will.
Good luck!
Steve