I'm in the same boat. I want a Passat because of the more comfy seat and it has the fuel gauge & engine temp, but for the 6m I'm forced to get the base model. I could get the Jetta loaded with sun roof, navi, ect in the 6m, but the seat wasn't as comfortable to me.
I'm getting out of a Caddy CTS ( only 22mpg hwy) so I'm pretty use to creature comforts.
Clutch jobs aren't that big of a job, I have a lift in the garage, but after reading about the DSG service at 40k miles and just changing the fluid, I think I'll stick with the manual