I'm assuming you bought your car recently. How about you accept the free money and keep the car and it's newly extended emissions warranty? Don't play victim here. If you liked the car enough to buy it, then you should like it enough to keep it.
1) I bought my car recently, but it was used
2) I bought my car thinking I could drive it for a long time and it keep a decent amount of it's resale value
3) I'm convinced that there is no fix and I live in a state where there is no way in hell they will continue to allow me to drive my car with that many pollutants.
4) Even IF there were a fix, my car would be out of the extended warranty most soon after it started. And we all know that any "Fix" is going to be hard on the emission equipment in these cars.
5) And I do like the car, just don't like the: bad DSG, exploding Fuel pumps, contaminated fuel systems, expensive maintenance, coolant rust issues, specialized VW only everything, DPF failures, Intake Flap Codes, ..... but other than that.. it's a damn nice car.