The DPFs do not clog up, they crack and leak. So the fact that the DPF "survived" a measly 50k miles while adding 2-stroke oil to the fuel means absolutely nothing.
The variable displacement oil pumps VAG has been using in some gas engines for a while now have not had any issues aside from the occasional oil pressure sensor failure.
The variable displacement water pumps ARE a common failure item, so common is the control collar breaking on the 2015 TDI 4 cyl engines that the replacements no longer have this collar...effectively eliminating the variable feature of the pump. They still have the plug, though, so no software changes and I guess they have no way of detecting if the system is actually working or not.
And for the record, in the event a HPFP failure should happen, it does NOT mean the crazy amounts of money you see posted here. We also have a vendor here that can properly fix and clean the injectors, so they needn't be replaced either. You basically just do the pump itself, the two electric pumps (although the auxiliary electric pump under the hood could probably be cleaned easily enough, they never die), the rail pressure sensor and control solenoid (these would be difficult to really get clean I think) and a filter. That's it. Every other piece can be carefully disassembled and cleaned, no problem. Of the two that I did, I know for sure one is still on the road today nearly 50k miles later.