OK. Well first of all. I am sorry to hear it was not an easy fix. But I am glad you took it to a qualified mechanic.
There is an option you should consider before taking the head off. You (or your mechanic) can drill & tap the hole and put a heli coil in it without having to remove the head. Here is the kicker, you need to be able to do this without loosing any part of the plug into the head. If you make sure the piston on that cylinder is at TDC, then that should prevent the plug end from falling into the cylinder if it breaks loose from the body.
Here is a crude drawing of the glow plug hole:
Now, if you drill down to the red line, that should remove all the threaded part of the glow plug:
Once you drill out all the threads, there will be nothing holding the plug in there. But don't remove it just yet. Use it as a plug to prevent the shavings from the tap from going into the head.
Once you get enough room in there, you can easily tap new threads for a heli coil. Once the new threads are tapped, clean out the hole with compressed air & then try to remove the rest of the plug. It should come out easily at this point since there are no threads holding it in there. Its basically just sitting on the tappered part of the head.
Remember, it has been in there plugging the hole, so there shouldn't be anything in the cylinder at this point. Just make sure you clean it well. Once the remains of the plug are extracted, simply insert the heli coil in the threads you tapped & you should be able to throw in a new plug. It might not be a bad idea to use thread lock to hold the heli coil. Let it set up before inserting the new plug though. You don't want to thread lock the plug in there.
I think this may work. It will be time consuming & trickey, but a lot less involved than removing the head, which is about an 8-10 hour job. Plus, the parts do do a head removal are expensive as you might as well do a complete timing belt job while you have the front of the engine apart.
If anyone thinks this is a bad idea, please let me know. But IMO, it can't hurt to try. The worst case scenario is that something goes wrong & you have to remove the head anyway, but at least you tried.