Alright, I just installed the hitch (3 hours, but I had dinner and some company in there too). The version I received is a Touch different from the above.
The 2 most notable are that the "receiver" for the swan neck is now a bolt-on item (the above looks welded), and there are 2 sets of threaded holes for which to bolt to the vehicle:
I used the set of holes that pushes the bar back the furtherst and will need to switch them when I get a chance. So, for Future installers, make sure you push the bar all the way in or else you'll be trimming the Back of the lower valence where everything is plainly visible.
A smaller change is the one hole for a safety chain, it's no longer a long slot as above, but now just a single small hole. I'll likely put a screw carabiner (only the chep kind found in parts stores) through that hole and the OEM tow ring to use as points for a safety chain.
Otherwise I followed the instructions at the top of this post (thanks!). I'd wished there were a couple better pics, so I grabbed them. When you're bolting the bar to the frame, there are square patches that peel off nicely where the bolts go. I just grabbed them with a needle-nose pliers and pulled them off:
And here's a rear and side shot of the hitch installed (keep in mind I need to push it in about an inch still):
I'm Certainly not worried about it dragging in the up position.
And the tools used:
3/8 and 1/4 ratchets
25 and 30 Torx sockets
8mm, 10mm, 13mm, 17mm and 19mm sockets
extensions and a wobble (handy for removing the OEM 5mph bumper)
8mm, 17mm and 19mm combination wrenches
needle nose pliers
utility knife
blue loctite (I use this on Everything I take apart)
light source (it got dark on me.. :/ )
It really couldn't be much simpler of a job.
I'll get to the electrics when I have time/good weather, but it'll be a brake controler for trailer brakes.