Gents,
Thanks for the affirmations. I owe a great deal of my understanding of the above to Dwayne, my local guru, allowing me to watch him work and ask dumb questions. He has the patience to explain it, thoroughly and in detail. "See this, as you turn the wheel, this is what's wearing."
Ahhhhh, NOW I get it. My "02 Golf was pretty much all original, not abused and 123k. Rubber gets tired. Joints get worn. Do the basics first. Dwayne is a stickler for OEM, and he's been working on older VWs for 30yrs. Stay away from poly is his recommendation, you end up hardening the give points too much,
and then stuff breaks. Especially on the rough roads this neck of the woods. OEM will last a long time and give great service. Rather than messing with bushings he just replaced the whole lower control arms.
Then do springs and struts and swaybars and tires. Go for power
AFTER you've got all that right. Most do it the other way round.
My $.02