Is there a more cost effective clutch step up? South bend is a little pricy, g60/vr6 looks like a good combo but again Tq numbers are a little iffy as what it will hold. Along with is there any way to source your parts for that combo. Can't seem to figure out what flywheel works and what Vr6 clutch is best.
You'd probably be fine with a VR60 clutch. I think those are good up to about 225ft lbs, and a stock ALH is what, like 150-160ft lb? I don't remember what stock injectors are - like .160 or .180, depending on whether they were in a manual or auto originally? DSEL is at .260, and my other ALHs are all .240, but I'm also using a clutch good to 425ft lb.
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@burpod, DSOL is my 2000 Golf and while it has .240's, I still haven't yet pulled the transmission to both replace the cluch (PO put a crappy $100 chinese ebay clutch on) and rear main seal. I still think you'd be fine with the G60/VR6 clutch, but if you went the custom tune route with Guthrie, it can be tuned down some so it's not putting out crazy torque.
You mention Stage 3 - stock turbo, or upgraded? I've come to the realization that Stage X means nothing to me, given how generic everyone else's tunes are, and how hardware varies so much between cars.