VW has issued a TSB: 27-15-03, Battery Discharged, Diagnosis for Excessive Static Current Draw, release date 7-13-23 for all models except Routan,. With the vehicle in sleep state for two hours, specification is nominal sleep current < 40mA. Sleep state is achieved with all doors, trunk, hood latch closed and vehicle locked to arm anti-theft sys. The TSB doesn't identify any specific load culprits but is more about the method used to test for parasitic load. They want to test for voltage drop across fuses rather than traditional method of pulling fuses because pulling fuses can wake up the control modules. If you suspect the DEF heater, you should be able to pull that fuse overnight as a test. Trunk and glovebox lamps can be hidden cuprits. Alternator field coil can also be a source of drain. You can unplug harness from alternator and see if problem disappears. If it were me, I would install my multimeter in series at the battery and measure the current draw. This parasitic draw test, to be done properly, must be done with a knife switch to put the sys in sleep state. If you don't use the knife switch to switch your am meter into series with batt connection, you will interrupt the batt cable connection which will prevent sys from going into sleep state. If you have an inductive amp clamp, that can be an easier way to perform parasitic draw test.
Regarding storing keyfobs inside vehicle, my understanding is that when the vehicle is locked and armed, the vehicle radio receivers stop looking for input from the two antennas inside the cabin and are only looking for radio input from the exterior proximity antennas in the door handles and luggage compartment so leaving a keyfob inside should not inhibit sleep mode as long as security is armed/locked. Once you unlock/unarm, and open the door, then the cabin radio receivers start looking for presence of key fob inside the cabin. I have a spare key fob hidden inside my cabin and have hever had issues with battery drain. To prove this, I just attempted to open my locked Passat WITHOUT a keyfob in my pocket, but with the keyfob locked inside the vehicle and the doors would not unlock from outside. The sys remained asleep and would not unlock because the control module was not looking for input from the internal cabin antenna.