If the engine has run for about 15 minutes, the engine will not restart. If the 109 relay is immediately replaced with a spare, the engine will immediately restart. I have (3) 109 relays that can be swapped, but have only been using two for these tests.
I have cleaned the following grounds: On the battery, (2) under the battery, (1) on the manual transmission, (1) in front of the ECU, and (1) near the relays by the steering column.
This may be unrelated, but I also noticed the MAF requested at idle is ~270 and if the accelerator pedal has not been moved recently, it will say the actual is 450 on my VCDS. Press the accelerator pedal and the actual and requested go back to being approximately equal.