The bottom line for
miniCotulla is that if you want to have your cake and eat it, too, that is to say, you want the widest spread of a 350 HP target with very fast response and low-end torque availability, you'll need a similarly wide spread of turbo sizes between HP and LP. Before I go into the specifics of turbo selection, you WILL therefore need to bypass the HP in some way. If you don't, the small HP turbo will be a severe restriction in the upper power and RPM band as Fixed_Until_Broke has found in his setup. If you are willing to embark on this added level of complexity, then you can proceed to the next step of the discussion, and there are a couple of ways to go.
Since you'll need a bypass around the HP anyway, using a wastegated HP turbo may not be such a bad thing, but as such keep it small, something like the GT1446S with the highest possible trim you can find and small turbine A/R (~0.34). The bypass - sufficiently sized external wastegate preferred - is to be controlled based on interstage differential pressure (you can use a dirt simple manual boost controller). DON'T dump the wastegate gases directly into the downpipe but reintroduce it upstream of the LP turbine inlet. In any case, you should definitely use an inter-stage cooler as well as an aftercooler.
The LP can be a VNT unit that is controlled by the N75 as usual (direct to a PWM actuator preferred). Here, I'd choose something fairly large rather than run a smaller turbo (eg. GTB22 frame size with a 60-65 mm compressor wheel - again, the trim is far more important than the headline outer diameter!!!). Some aftermarket companies advertise hybridized turbos based on the GTB22 outfitted with ball bearings that support 400+ HP, for example below.
* Price is shown without VAT and shipping costs. Bolt-on upgrade turbocharger solution for BMW M57N2 engine power gain designed to work with stock exhaust manifold and other engine units. Five versions available from Stage 2 to Stage 5. Specifications and compatibility list written below.
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* Price is shown without VAT and shipping costs. This is our custom ball bearing solution for other M57 engines designed to work with 170KW/231HP exhaust manifold. Instead of electrical actuator vacuum control is used.
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You can also do a bypassed setup with VNT HP and wastegated LP - e.g. Audi's 3.0 BiTdi, or VNT for both HP and LP. The latter sounds extremely complicated but it's not really. The trick is to use the SAME N75 signal to control BOTH HP and LP turbos simultaneously. This is easiest when both turbos use N75-compatible (300 Hz PWM) electronic actuators rather than vacuum. You still need to bypass the HP as before, and the programming needs to be sufficiently sophisticated to know when the bypass has opened or closed and not go into limp-mode as it sees that the boost pressure has fallen or risen without correspondence to the vane position for reasons the ECU doesn't understand but simply adjusts accordingly.
If you want to go with the dual-VNT setup, a great turbo to use for the HP is the GTD1752VRK from the 184 HP BMW 2.0d. It already has a Hella PWM electronic actuator that can be adapted to work with the N75 signal. For the LP, choose from the above URL with the electronic actuator - again, the Hella/BMW actuator is compatible!