Wind was blowing from REAR to FRONT of car!!! So strange!
Anyway, I did the soap test both spraying suds up all over the EGR pipes, flex pipe, exhaust union under middle of car, front and back of CAT and NO bubbles! BTW, the slight black exhaust that I cleaned off the flex has not returned. Still clean! The only leak I could finally find was that dumb EGR cooler flap, but no hissing sound has ever been heard. See video.
Walmart didn't have the $6 fix, so I tried JB weld that they did have. It was too runny so ordered quick steel puddy off amazon. I chiseled out the old dumb bushing, and had a grand idea of trying to pop off the lever on the end of the shaft so I could put a viton o-ring btwn 2 layers of puddy, putting a layer of quicksteel, pushing the spring back in, then a layer of motorcraft TA-31 sealant, which is amazing stuff (it will seal/glue anything, even molding on car, impervious to oil, water, etc), then a final layer of quicksteel puddy. I had my nail ready, even put a slot in the head of the nail so would fit nicely around the shaft so I could push it in real good.
But once I started, I realized it was too hard to mess with 3 layers, used nail for just a bit, then just stuffed in puddy with my fingers, inserted the spring, and puddied it ALL the WAY to the bottom of the shaft for extra support and hopefully more sealing. I'm waiting another 8hrs before I start it up, but really hoping this works.
If attaching images/videos wasn't so hard in this stupid forum, I'd attach them. I do have some, but it is such a pain.
Now that I've done this once, I hope to never have to get that spring out again. It was a pain getting out even without quicksteel stuffed in there. However, I'll be estatic if it even last 20k miles because I could easily chiseled out the bottom part (that is around the shaft at the bottom) and putting new putty on it WITHOUT removing 1 piece of hardware or removing 1 bolt.
Does anyone know how to pop off the "lever" of the shaft? My idea was to pop it off, put the puddy/viton o-ring/puddy on, then put lever back on by slightly hammering the end of the shaft to "mash" it down a bit to hold the lever. Honestly, I almost don't even care if that actuator still works after all this. As long as the shaft can move freely, then it can open and close all it wants.