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Malone, Revo, Rocket Chip, etc.. are all candidates for your MY and are well discussed here. Search forums, plenty of reading, decide for yourself which one. Between the reputable candidates, it seems to come down to a Ford/Chevy argument IMHO; I'll be getting one of those three somewhere down the road....
In any case, your ECU will need to be removed for the initial programing, the anti-tamper encryption needs to be defeated on the bench, subsequent updates can be done via CAN-bus / OBD port as I understand it..
'10 Jetta 6M Sedan, 35% Llumar tint, WeatherTech Floor Liners, TDIclub Plate Frame, B2, PS, ScanGauge II, Micro-Can VAG-Com
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