MK4 ALH Engine Work?

Gonna pick up my turbo tomorrow morning and plan out a visit at MAP Performance to see what they can do for me.

I plan to push my GTD1752VRK hard. What am I looking at for building up the engine to support it? Looking to push ~200hp/350tq. (rough guesstimate)

Any recommendations on what to replace for reliability? Money is looking to be around $3k tops including the cost of a SBC stage 3 and colt cam stage 3.

Any details needed, I will answer ASAP.

Axles?

Any recommendations? Or is OE the best quality? Whats the chance of an axle breaking?

EDIT: I should have updated earlier. I had a few recommendations earlier to get.
INA Black Nitride lifters
PD150 Intake w/ EGR (Cold winters here)
ARP head studs
CXRacing intercooler

Tough question or is there too much controversy over brand quality?

http://forums.tdiclub.com/showthread.php?t=138801

VR6/1.8T axles (from a 5spd)