Just replaced the DMF on my MK5 Jetta. No how no way will it mate to the transmission , I`ve loosened and tightened the bell housing bolts a dozen times and always get to the point where I`m going to crack something, in fact I already have. I`ve taken it completely out once and cleaned up the female splines and checked the fit but when I get it in the car it just isnt happening... am I missing something ? Any advice is appreciated