Sorry this happened. This is by exact fear when replacing the control arm bushings. I'll be facing this fear in a couple of months, already got all the parts and new ball joints too, since I will be in there. I actually think if an impact wrench is used to remove the front control arm bolt, there may less chance of the nut coming loose. If a namual wrench or socket is used, the lower speed/higher torque turning may break the nut free inside the subframe. Now when installing the front bolt, DO NOT knock it through the front control arm bushing with a hammer, because when it bottoms out against the nut, it may pop it off the inside of the subframe. Also, use a wrench/socket to lightly tighten it and finish up with a torque wrench. DO NOT use an impact wrench to install.
Anyone else think the impact wrench is the way to go to remove the front bolt? Or have you had good luck with manually wrenching it off? I could go either way for removing the bolt. Any advice would be appreciated.
--Nate