E85 pump handles are commonly yellow or green. Also, I have seen diesel pump handle colors vary from black to yellow or green. Read. You dodged a bullet big time! I cringed when you said you started the car
Glad everything turned out okay.
Also some advice when it comes to older guys who THINK they know about diesel stuff. Diesel engines have changed drastically. They are so different then even 10 years ago.
As little as 7-10 years ago some diesels could still run straight up waste oils. Try that in a common rail / modern diesel? you may blow the entire fuel system up. Also, a bunch of old school diesel guys use starting fluid on a hard to start diesel. Big no no. Make sure whoever you are getting your advice from is someone informed on the issue. My 7.3 ford diesel is A LOT different then your CR diesels.
Good luck with everything!