Here's an update: when I took my car in for it's 90-day checkup, I told the service manager about the whole "car-killing-the-nano-battery" deal. He was aware of the existence of the update download, but was unsure of the format for it's delivery to the dealer or whether they even had the fix on-site. I said "no problem...I downloaded it to my thumb drive and have it right here". He said "how do we connect that to the radio? We don't have a USB adapter cable". I said "no problem...I ordered one last week. It should be in the parts department as we speak". So, we went and got my new USB cable out of parts, went out to the car, and plugged it in. The update performed automatically when I turned on the RNS-315, taking almost no time at all. I plugged in my fully-charged 4th gen nano and played it the rest of the afternoon while running errands. When I got home, I decided to leave the nano plugged into the car over night to test the "fix". Previously, the battery in the nano would have been completely dead within a few hours, but when I went out to the car to check on it at around noon today (about 19 hours later), the nano's battery was still fully charged! What I found through testing is that you have to actually lock the car when you get out or the nano won't go fully to sleep, but if you do lock it...the nano will be out cold within 10 or 15 minutes. That problem is toast. Another improvement: when I pull up a list of artists, songs, whatever...the display no longer shows blanks when I'm scrolling through it, so that's much faster. And, the song titles for the songs that are currently playing are now correctly updated while they're playing, instead of skipping one or two titles while the songs change.
I've only noticed one problem with the update. When I'm listening to an album and I hit the "up" list button once, now...instead of showing me the other songs on the album that I'm listening to (like it used to), the display jumps all the way back out to the alphabetical beginning of the entire song list! This is a real PITA, to say the least. The other fixes make this livable, but why must there be "two steps forward, one step back" when they're trying to straighten out the firmware? Now, I'll just have to wait for the next update...