We had the brake fluid flush done on schedule....and I had the courtesy dealer VISA to pay for it. This, even though we've never flushed the brakes in any other ABS car we've owned, and had no problems.
As far as the fuel filter is concerned, given what I've read on this issue (this is our first diesel) this is not an item one should put off. I've asked for the used filters to be returned, and changed one myself, but only the latter enables one to look into the canister holding the filter element, shine a light down there and see if there is garbage, or, probably more important, water.
Changing out the fuel filter in the CKRA cars is simplicity itself. Put paper towels around the housing to avoid spills, remove the 5 Torx bolts, pull up the cover, remove the old filter element gently to avoid spillage. Use a light to look down into the bottom of the bowl for gunk or water (there wasn't anything but clear fuel in ours when I looked). SLOWLY lower the new element into the canister, then top it up to the brim with fresh diesel or Power Service (you will be pouring into the dirty side of the filter, so don't worry). Bolt the cover back down, restart the car* and check for leaks.
*DISCLAIMER: Standard service procedure for our Passat calls for running the tank pump for a minute or so using VCDS, which I did because I have VCDS. Other people I've read who have done this filter change just top up the canister after inserting a new filter, bolt the lid down and restart, and the car starts and runs immediately. But I feel compelled to add= YMMV.