Excellent I'm glad to hear that it'll work. I was a little concerned about it being a proprietary relay that there might be some other function that it was performing. The heads up about the amperages should definitely be noted. I decided to purchase a 60 amp bosch style relay just to be on the safe side mainly because the pin sizes for the load bearing circuits were similar in size to the stock 109.
I think Andy is saying stay with the physical OE relay itself, whereas I'm saying you can use an off-the-shelf 4 or 5 pin 12VDC relay. Totally up to you at the end of the day.
The difference between the two relays is this: OE Relay 109 has an internal switching mechanism that when the relay sees power from it's main fuse it switches the relay on without an external pin 85. You can run an aftermarket relay no problem BUT you'll have to integrate a jumper wire from pin 30 (main power in) to pin 85, with pin 86 connected to the ECU T121/18. I chose to do this as it allowed me to fasten the relay inside of the box with only a screw because the OE Relay 109 has no such fastening option.
Andy, would you agree?
Just as a reference, Relay 109 originates from F176 (110A) in the battery fuse box and supplies power to:
1. Glow plugs
2. Heater glow plugs, clutch and brake pedal switches, and crankcase breather heater (F43, 10A)
3. Piston movement & fuel temp sender (F32, 30A)
4. Air mass meter, commence injection valve, EGR valve, anti shudder valve, turbo wastegate solenoid (N75) valve (F34, 10A)