Again when the engine is cold, shift at 2500
When the engine is warm, 3,000.
DB
I have read this entire thread and both you and your opponents make plenty of good points, observations, and suggestions.
But I think you are going far out on the limb by saying 'shift at 2500-3000 rpm or you will need new turbo and possibly engine in 60k miles.'
While I am willing to believe your claims that shifting in the 2500-3000rpm range does not hurt the engines and they happilly take it for hundreds of thousands of kilometers (with the likely increased wear to clutch and decreased fuel economy), I do not believe that the reverse is true - namely that shifting at lower rpm is sure to destroy the turbo and the engine.
Lets think about it. There must be tens of thousands of A4 TDI and alike engines operating worldwide. How many of the owners actually know something about what is under the hood and/or read forums like this - 1 in a 1000 perhaps? Most drivers, gas or diesel, don't bother to check their tire pressure, and think that 'break-in' means burglary.
So statistically, most drivers don't follow any advice, during break-in and afterwards. Some of them like to rev up their engines and shift at 3500rpm. Others shift at 2500rpm. Still others upshift at 1700rpm and love their diesels for allowing it (in contrast to gas engines). I don't know what percentage of drivers falls into which group, but realistically there must be plenty in each of them.
Thus if your dire claims of assured grave powertrain harm for shifting below 2500-3000 were true, a large number of TDI vehicles worldwide would need new turbos and engines every 60k miles.
As far as I know this is not the case, and TDI engines and their turbos are known to last.
So those of you who rev up to 3000 rpm before every shift - have fun - I'm sure engines don't mind it.
Those of you who shift at 2000 rpm - relax - I'm sure your engines don't mind it too.
Rigid rules like 3000 rpm to shift, Atkins diet, or Prohibition seldom work or withstand the test of time - I vote for eating all food groups in moderation, drinking responsibly, and shifting between 1700-3500rpm as I please.
You do what you like, of course.