Hey Shut,
That hole is a vent hole for the workings of the egr valve. It has an o-ring type seal I believe, and when that goes the pressure of the boost squeezes blowby out of there. The oil that is coming out is the oil that is in the air that is going into your cylinders. One way to stop the oil from coming out (you won't be able to stop the pressurized air from leaking out until you fix the o-ring, which I think may require a new IM) is to put a ccv filter on, something like the Provent or one of the home-brewed ones...this will reduce the oil that comes out. The other way is to disable the egr valve and then plug the venthole with something. I have this same problem but I haven't plugged it yet. I am going to try using a high-pressure rtv sealant and see if it will hold. I've noticed if I drive easily and keep the boost to a minimum the oil doesn't come out too much, but get on it awhile and it will start spraying onto the valve cover, etc.
The problem with an integrated egr valve is we may have to get another IM to stop that problem...I haven't really heard a solution that will repair that on the car. Good luck with this...I think my leak is getting worse.
Just for future reference, this problem may have been caused in two ways when you cleaned the IM...1) if you dipped the IM completely into some solution strong enough to clean off the oil and soot, it could also have eaten that o ring...2), it may have been leaking for awhile but the buildup of the crud on the inside of the egr may have blocked the leak...not sure about that last one.