How did it get that high? (ok, I see it is the bad exhaust temp sensor)
http://www.natef.org/NATEF/media/NATEFMedia/VW%20Files/2-0-TDI-SSP.pdf see page 62.
includes details on how the engine computer manages the soot, and timing of the active regeneration.
there are three ways the ECU decides to run a regeneration,
soot load calculated, (based on operating parameters, temps, and oxygen sensor)
soot load measured, (based on differential pressure, input mass flow, and temperature)
miles since last completed active regeneration is the third way.
if you have an engine light, (which of course, you must have), it could be because one of the sensors needed to control the regeneration is not working,
if it is one of the sensors used for the measured soot, it will read 0, I am guessing.
I agree the ash load is not a problem.
if you are not in a hurry, you can watch the measured soot load and see if it changes. mine goes up and down, but I have 140k on mine. most of the time I see 0 measured soot, and it then goes up and down as I drive. ( I have logged on my VCDS, and now have a PF03 to distract me while I drive)
here is the free advice part.
I watch my car step to calculated soot levels arond 16.5, then a regen, while the measured can be at 0, but also up to two or three. well below the calculated value.
I do also see the differential pressure related to the DPF, which varies, but for me, just before a regen, can be up to 10 at idle.
this tells me that the calculated method of soot estimation is more pessimistic than it has to be.
translation: I would not be too worried if you can trick it into a regen. (but would want to do it on a drive in moderate temperatures with an expected clear path and good air flow to keep the risk to a reasonable level.