Well as it turns out the problem was the four wheels were not balanced correctly.
For example, One wheel was .50 1.25 out of balance that the Orillia dealer had done and screwed up.
They did a four wheel alignment back when too, did they do that wright or screw that up too?
Had all four wheels balanced correctly and the steering wheel no more vibration.
Seems to me poor workmanship by the Orillia VW dealer, or is it their balancing machine. I don't think the machine as if so then a lot of people then having same problem.
One thing also for sure is very poor customer relations from them, when their head mechanic says your on your own and also one of the part owners don't answer back their e-mails.
The head office in Ajax did nothing either for me so it looks like VW is not a brand to buy in the future,
As I see it, they are one dealer to stay away from.
They won't omit when they are wrong and correct the simple problem.
If they had done it wright in the first place would have saved them time and money along with saving my time going up some four times or more to have the problem corrected.
In fact, they made the problem worse every time I went up and they worked on it.