Can't really say about '09's, but in case you don't get a reply, I guess mine is better than none!
I ordered my '03 on August/02 and it showed up in November. I have heard of others saying three months as well.
I have hear that they really don't order them, rather, they just get dibs on a car coming in that has what you want. Dunno, can't confirm. I had some dealers perplexed why I wanted to order, they try to sell me what they had, but I wanted an odd ball -Jetta wagon GLS fully loaded with every option, including ESP, heated leather, monsoon, but with a 5 speed manual (not auto!).
I never regretted waiting for this rare combo.
So, be patient- it is pretty exciting when the car comes in.