I reset the trip computer every time I fill up and kind of check it every once in a while, but definitely not religiously. When calculating mileage, yes I do it manually and also enter it into Fuelly.
My daily commute is almost all stop and go, and on the way home it can be bumper to bumper crawling traffic for about 20 minutes. I figured because of this, I probably wouldn't see a whole lot of improvement during daily use. Judging from all of the comments I have read about the mods, I expected about 5-10 mpg improvement on steady highway trips. I drive to/from Boston twice a year to move my niece to/from college. Prior to the mods, I got 40.78 (5/11/14) and the most recent trip (5/10/15) I got 42.15 mpg with the mods done. With a difference of only 1.5ish mpg's, I'm just going to call that essentially the same.