If you check the Boston/NH Craigslist for full size spares being sold by former TDI / VW owners, you'll be able find one that has never been used for $50 or so. I see them listed all the time. Do you have an actual donut spare, or a limited speed full-size?
I love the anecdotes (here and on every other spare tire thread) about never needing one. They're fun. But for those owners and situations in which only a full-size spare will work, there is (as the slogan goes) no substitute. They might be a waste of space or fuel (weight) 99% of the time, but can't we apply this mantra to many things that other owners choose to have in their cars? As a counter anecdote: In summer 2009 I was driving to Camp Pendleton from center of the country, and blew out a tire when crossing barren northern Texas. The tire was a complete loss (at half its warranty mileage), while the other three were fine. I was, shall we say, on a time schedule that allowed no delay, and required weeks of driving upon arrival in CA without free time to replace the tire. I put on the full size spare in 105* heat, and made it to CA on time. Two weeks later, I made it to the tire shop at my leisure. I'd rather have extra fuel, too- but if I'm not adding a extra fuel tank (and that option has been investigated and dismissed), I'd rather fill the spare tire well with a full size instead of a donut. Minimal difference in weight, and it allows you to safely continue your trip at speed, and repair or replace a tire when convenient.