The reason aftermarket and most car thermostats have weak springs is because they are designed to be on the outlet side of the water pump and open against the coolant pressure( the pump flow/pressure is trying to force it closed). The stant is a perfect example of perfected design with minimal materials and still function correctly if located between the outlet side of the pump and the inlet side of the radiator with the wax motor facing into the flow.
Also to warm the wax motor and cylinder head and prevent the pump from captivating or churning, hence the bypass requirement. The wiggle pin or slight leakage is usually to bleed any trapped air.
VW put their thermostat on the intake side of the water pump. They have a perfectly designed system. All high points have hose bleeds and the thermostat has an internal bypass. The bypass fully closes at 213 degrees. How do I know that. Because I read and listen to what others are doing and saying.
Josh said when he had a chance to see the bypass opening and said he estimated it to be .250 in. In another post Josh then did the thermostat measurement video. I noted that it required 1 degrees to move the dial indicator approx. .010 thou. or 25 degrees F. to close the .250 by pass.
Now I want to listen to you but at the same time you have to listen to me. You now think it might be the wax causing the stock spring to operate incorrectly. The wax degrades at a rate of a couple degrees a year.
The thermostat responds very slowly. Again the video back a page on this thread shows this. The test shows that a stant thermostat opens 10 degrees higher than the rated setting but closes exactly at the rated setting.
Try making a 205 as #
731 did. After you try that add a 195 degree to your inline. You need to get the inline to open before the 205. See if the results are any better. Insulate the hose the inline thermostat is in to get it to respond faster.