Went from 30, to 40, now 60k. Given that much of your engine's intake air is actually coming from the exhaust during much of its operation, it makes sense that the filter would be OK for that long.
Keep in mind, manufacturers cannot give a precise time/mileage for air filter replacement for every engine, given that they are not all operated the same, under the same conditions. So this is one of those items that is usually given plenty of margin for error. I've seen some REALLY dirty air filters in older TDIs, that had clearly gone well beyond the recommended interval, and they were still running OK.
I'd not lose any sleep over it. You know, there are Ford Focuses that have a "lifetime" air filter. By lifetime, they mean 120k miles, and at that point you must replace the entire $400 air cleaner assembly.