I’m convinced the HPFP failures are due to a (or some) bad batch(es) during the manifacturing process. No, I don’t have any evidence of that - only a derived conclusion from reading on this forum.
It seems like if they’re going to fail, they’ll do it relatively early.
Most HPFP failures (I’d wager north of 90%) happened before 50k miles.
Very few have happened between 50k-80k, and I think maybe 2(?) - reported on this forum at least - have happened beyond 100k, and I don’t recall one after 120k (or first timing belt service). Check the thread on this topic - I might be wrong.
Anyway, it seems to be luck of the draw on these. Yes, abuse might destroy a good one. But pampering isn’t going to preserve a bad one. Regular acceleration and/or highway cruising will do that.
Some of us are strapped for cash, some of us are not. Is doing a fuel filter change without using VCDS going to explode your otherwise perfect CP4? Probably not.
You do what you think is best for you. Whatever gives you more smiles per mile. Enjoy the car.