BlueNote,
You're makin' this way to hard on yourself buddy. It's only oil and all the oils mentioned so far would work. You just gotta look at total cost, shipping , etc. and whatever else turns you on.
As far as 15W-40, I used Pennzoil 15W-40 mineral oil for the first 50,000 miles. No apparent problem with the 15W part. Started fine in the cold, no cranking issues. The Pzoil was mineral, so it had a high evaporation rate and put lots of oil vapors in to the CCV path and intake.
I switched to DELVAC1 for the low evaporation rate and presto!! ..... intake problems gone!!! Amsoil is just as good if not better in terms of evaporation rate. This is an important oil quality in a EGR'd diesel.
Also, the Caterpillar 5W-40 oil is repackaged DELVAC1 and is usually a couple bucks less than the DELVAC1. There's a Freightliner truck place in E. Hartford that carries the DELVAC1 and/or Caterpillar oil and they have a TDIClub discount deal, about $18/gal.
Listen to TooSlick. I haven't kept track, but the oils mentioned so far will work and it will be near impossible to notice any bit of difference in how your car runs from one oil to the other, and I highly doubt one oil will cause/allow the engine to fail before the rest of the car falls apart, but you have to weigh what you want to pay as far as effort to getting it or pay in shipping, etc.
Maybe you should project oil change/use costs out 150,000 miles and see if that helps you.
It's only oil. Lighten up. The oil wars that go on here are ridiculous. There are no major Earth shattering differences between the top synthetics that you are considering. Get on the Mobil, Caterpillar, and Amsoil websites and find yourself a dealer and move on.