I went back and checked my notes, $1400-$1500 was what I was quoted for the full 5 speed swap kit from Europe shipped (not including reflash or a valeo clutch so add $750 for both). Which is why I figured if you take your time and search you could get it cheaper if the auto is still functioning.
I was wrong with the 6 speed, because that does not include the aftermarket rebuild kit of $500 or the labor to rebuild it (I know at least 1 guy who hasn't done that, but I doubt any shop would let the 01e go out the door without it), so I will edit that in the last message. for the sake of consistency.
I think that still puts close to the $4k window, but hey, I haven't done the swap yet, so if there are lots of things that I forgot feel free to make up a new list. If you want to do that, then I will edit my post after you are all done.