What Geordi said, I think these 01ms mostly die because they get EXTREMELY hot in stop and go traffic with the factory cooler. A better cooler design might fix it, but I don't know. If you live in the country instead of a big city with lots of traffic, it would probably never get hot in the first place. I live near the SF bay area, and a normal days drive on a parking-lot/freeway would have my 01m over 200F for hours on end, which cooked my rebuilt trans after only 40k miles.
Personally, I would never buy another 01m car. Swapping mine to a 6 speed manual was the only good way out, but far more work and expense than the car was worth, I like it now, but wouldn't do it again. If you actually want an automatic car, look for something where the automatic transmission has a great reputation or is cheap to rebuild, ideally a car with an extremely common Aisin unit of some kind. Also, after driving w/ the 6 speed, I think the 4th gear in the 01m is way too low for freeway driving with a TDI, the low gears waste a lot of fuel and make a lot of noise.