http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/CAN_bus
Did a little look-see, and it is true the can bus is common for all nodes. but it is not convincing to me that the scangauge will not work with the polar fis.
the way the bus works, with the OBD connector, is that the sensor (scan gauge, or other too) sends a request message tailored to the desired reading, every node on the bus reads it, and a node that recognizes the request processes and sends the response. the scan gauge X gauge instructions give some hints into the process.
http://www.scangauge.com/wp-content/uploads/XGaugeCoding.pdf
if two nodes are asking for the same readings, at the same time, it could get confusing, with a node responding to one request and the other requester missing the response. I think this is why polar fis says to turn off when using a VCDS.
I suspect (and will check when mine comes in and I get the chance to hook mine up and check) that if different gauges are requested by the scangauge than are selected in the polarfis, things should work just fine. They probably work even if the same reading is requested in both, as long as the message rates are not too high.
it certainly has the chance in some cases to cause confusion, and were active commands are being sent, you would not want two sources fighting for control.
will post an update in a couple weeks when I get the chance to try.