The VDS-PRO mod worked great. Chose controller 46, logged in with 19283, and then read EEPROM (serial). 04352, 04353, and 04354 were all 140. Changed all three to 88 and the rear hatch works like it's supposed to now! No clue how I lived without that feature for 4 years now.
Now I just need to figure out how to do it on my mom's 2005 wagon. It has an electronic switch for the handle, rather than a physical switch like the Golf. On it (which also has a 1C0 CCM), 88 just makes the hatch unlock when the alarm is armed. So I changed it back (default value of 45), and I'm going to read more through that LONG thread.