2010 Jetta TDI DSG Maintenance help please

I have a 2010 Jetta TDI that I will be putting 25k miles or so per year on. I currently have 8k miles and will be due for my first 10k soon. What is the BEST maintenance interval "to do" list for each service? I will be keeping this car for the long term. I will have all my oil changes Blackstone labs tested as a precaution in addition. Any info. is greatly appreciated. As a side note, does anyone know the best service VW dealer to use in south jersey by chance? Looking to develop a long term business relationship on that front as well.
Thanks all!

Just go with the maintenance list that comes with the owner's package. That's what I stick to.

Your subject line asks about DSG maintenance - Fluid and filter change every 40k miles.

The body of you post seems to be about general maintenance. This might be helpful: http://forums.tdiclub.com/showthread.php?t=308136&highlight=2009+maintenance

All the information you need should be in the manual package that came with your car. As for competent dealers for service - they seem to be few and far between. Once your warranty (and "free" service) is over, you might want to find a real TDI expert. I would suggest you check out the "Trusted Mechanics List" below: (there are several in NJ)

https://docs.google.com/View?docID=0ARLui1Im8fhPZGoyYjR3d18wY2JqMnA4ZHQ&revision=_latest

Have Fun!

Don