I cannot get the 109 relay to power up in my swap. If I touch ground to the blu/yel wire it will power up. But it won't shut off until I pull the relay. I kept the load reduction relay box and the 109 relay from my donor. 2002 Jetta ALH. And the power distribution box at the battery. Can anyone tell me what wire tells the computer to ground out the blu/yel wire for the 109 relay. Thanks!